BeckyM Celebrant

BeckyM Celebrant Celebrant. Weddings without beige. Joyful celebrations of Life after direct cremation.

13/06/2026

Great photo shoots are just the same as great wedding ceremonies.

It’s not how you look. It’s how you’ve been seen.

Your energy, your purpose, what makes you… you.

And when you are fully seen, fully heard, it feels amazing.

Same as a great wedding ceremony.

Get a celebrant and tell your story properly. I promise you, it will feel amazing.

13/06/2026

How does it feel when someone really sees you?

Not just how you look, but your energy, your personality… to the point where those who around you see it and know instinctively it feels like you?

Completely amazing.

The fantastic did just that for me on my brand shoot this week.

And that’s not too different to a wedding ceremony.

When someone really gets you - who you are, what this means and why now - there’s something pretty amazing about standing up in front of your favourite people and saying…

this is us.

A lot of your wedding day is about how things look.

Your ceremony is about how things feel.


08/06/2026

Wedding ceremony prep does not always go to plan.

Sometimes we find ourselves in the middle of a mini crisis.

And I’m all for it.
Life has a way of throwing in the curveballs and a little bit of chaos when we’re least expecting it.

But it’s these moments that create stories in our lives.
It’s the unexpected things that sit in our memory.
It’s the things we laugh about afterwards.

(Although not sure we would have been laughing if the emergency sewing failed mid-dance@shapes).

06/06/2026

Getting married the second time? Make sure you don’t miss this…

06/06/2026

Something that always comes up when I’m talking to people who have been married more than one time is the feeling of ‘f..k it, it’s our turn now’.

And that is so empowering.

Make your wedding day the one you both want.

Maybe it’s quiet. Maybe it’s loud.
Most of all, make it you.

Choose the people you want.
Say the things that need to be said.
Be heard fully.

I’d argue to do that properly, you need a great celebrant…
Someone who takes the time to understand what this actually is - not just “two people getting married”, but two people choosing each other with their eyes wide open.

Because a great celebrant can turn a perfectly nice ceremony into a bloody awesome one that everyone remembers.

Not because it was fancy.
Because it was honest.

You hear this a lot from people who had a registrar wedding…⁠⁠”We decided to write our own vows and I’m so glad we did. ...
04/06/2026

You hear this a lot from people who had a registrar wedding…⁠
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”We decided to write our own vows and I’m so glad we did. It was one of my most favourite things about the day.”⁠
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No S**t Sherlock.
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Of course it was, it was the bit where you finally got to sound like yourselves.⁠
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Imagine if the whole thing felt like that? ⁠
Where everyone in the room hears what this means for you. ⁠
Fully, intentionally, purposefully.⁠
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Book a celebrant.⁠
Gather your friends.⁠
Tell your stories fully.⁠
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And release the joy.

Simple⁠Your people + an emotional cocktail = joy.⁠⁠Fact.⁠⁠Over a hundred years ago, French sociologist Émile Durkheim sp...
01/06/2026

Simple⁠
Your people + an emotional cocktail = joy.⁠
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Fact.⁠
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Over a hundred years ago, French sociologist Émile Durkheim spotted something interesting.⁠
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He called it Collective Effervescence. Which is a fancy way of describing what happens when a group of people experience something intense and all feel it at the same time.⁠
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And that's why a great wedding ceremony feels different.⁠
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It's not just two people standing at the front, it's everyone in the room feeling something together.⁠
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So be more Émile.⁠
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Gather your people.⁠
Tell the stories.⁠
Say the real things.⁠
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Then stand back and enjoy the fizz.

31/05/2026

Last week, the wedding reading was in Latvian and I didn’t understand a single word.

Still totally got me. Funny, that.

People worry so much about trying to find the perfect words.

But sometimes a room full of people can feel exactly what’s being said without understanding any of it.

And that’s what really matters.

29/05/2026

A few days chilling in the (boiling) French sun before my niece’s wedding to her fabulous Ivo.

I’m starting a campaign for all wedding-reading prep to be done from a sun lounger.

A great reading from Everything I Know About Love by - modern, funny, emotional and honest. Check it out, it’s a good ‘un.

Some people cry in the ceremony because they feel seen.⁠Some people cry because change is being witnessed.⁠Some people c...
28/05/2026

Some people cry in the ceremony because they feel seen.⁠
Some people cry because change is being witnessed.⁠
Some people cry because hope is back on the agenda. ⁠
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And that's the power of a ceremony done properly. ⁠
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Before celebrancy, I spent 25 years helping brands work out who they really are and how to tell their story properly.⁠
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Now I do that for people. ⁠
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I get to know you. ⁠
I get to know what matters. ⁠
I get to know why this works. ⁠
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Then I turn it into your ceremony. ⁠
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