05/01/2021
❤️❤️LOVE IS NOT CANCELLED❤️❤️
This is me, just before I took the dog for a walk this evening - sporting my Love is not Cancelled hoodie, no make up, hair in disarray BUT I have freshly painted nails (that is my win for today - oh and keeping the little ones entertained).
Today has been tough for so many, weddings have once again been told they cannot go ahead and so people are postponing. We are 5 days in to a new year and already wishing we could start over - this was not in the script for 2021 😭
I asked earlier in my stories how people were feeling after last nights announcement and the words that kept cropping up where ‘deflated’, ‘worried’, ‘upset’, ‘angry’ ‘anxious’.
Remember, you are allowed to feel these feelings, do not hide away from them because you are frightened of upsetting someone else. This is an emotional rollercoaster we are all on. A storm we are all facing together. Be kind to each other. We don’t know everyone personally, and someone who is due to get married 5 months from now may have decided to postpone until next year but your wedding in 3 months you are still holding on to - don’t be angry at the person for postponing. They will have their reasons, which are totally valid for them as a couple
We will get through this together.
And one day soon, you will all get your happily ever after. It may not be the date you originally thought, or with the number of guests you had originally planned but you will eventually get to marry your best friend and begin your life long journey together ❤️
Sorry for the essay - keep your eyes peeled for something that I want to do for you guys throughout lockdown 3.0. to try and keep your spirits up 🤍