Suzanne Wright Celebrant Nottingham

01/05/2026

I often hear people say they want a direct cremation because they “don’t want any fuss” , or they think it's a low cost option, or they want to reduce the burden on their family, and that’s completely valid.

But sometimes, what gets lost in that decision is the value of having a moment to pause and acknowledge what’s happened. To say goodbye to someone. To thank them. To help start to process the loss.

That doesn’t have to mean a traditional funeral. It can be something much more personal, more relaxed, and more fitting. A 'Celebration of Life', a 'Memorial', any kind of gathering you like where you can spend time thinking about your person. Talking about them.

If you know someone who has asked for a direct cremation in their funeral plan, or you are considering one for someone who's died, it’s worth knowing you don’t have to lose the chance to say goodbye in a way that feels right.

I’m always happy to chat about what that could look like 🤍

Suzanne Wright 
Independent Celebrant
07878 940705

www.suzannewrightcelebrant.co.uk

27/03/2026

💫After the ceremony.... 💫

Some feedback from a lovely family I helped to say goodbye to their husband, dad and grandad. He had led a very full and fulfilling life and was someone who had contributed hugely to his community. We could have had an all day funeral and not run out of things to say about him!

An honour and privilege to help tell this soul's story and give him a fitting farewell.

Proud to do the job I do 🤍

26/03/2026

More people are opting for direct cremations, yet families often still want to gather together to honour their person and say goodbye.

It's perfectly possible to separate out the cremation from the ceremony.

A direct cremation can take place first, followed by a memorial service days or weeks later.

It gives families time and space to create something that feels right for the person they're remembering - in a way or a place that's meaningful.

There's no one way to say goodbye to a loved one. Just what feels right for you and your family. And you can honour their wishes, and still do something for those left behind too.

08/12/2025

What a wonderful weekend, full of some of the best people, music and words. What a lineup - .w.lymn

03/12/2025

Grief Awareness Week reminds us of something I see every day:
that grief is not something to be “fixed”, hurried, or neatly wrapped up.
It’s something to be held, gently and with compassion.

Being a celebrant has opened up so many conversations in my own life about death and dying - not just with the families I work with, but with friends, neighbours, and people who quietly say, “Can I ask you something?” or “I really miss them”.

Over time, I’ve become a kind of safe space for those conversations, and I feel deeply honoured by that trust.

If there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s that grief looks different for every person. There is no right timeline. No right way. Just your way.

If you are grieving, please know you don’t have to carry it alone. And if you’re supporting someone who is grieving, simply being present - without trying to fix - often means more than you realise.

Reach out to a friend or me for a chat, or one of the organisations below for care, guidance and community in your grief:

Gentle thoughts to all who are carrying loss today. 🤍

• The Good Grief Trust
Website: thegoodgrieftrust.org

• Cruse Bereavement Support
Helpline: 0808 808 1677
Website: cruse.org.uk

• Sands (Stillbirth & Neonatal Death Charity)
Helpline: 0808 164 3332
Website: sands.org.uk

• Marie Curie Bereavement Support
Support Line: 0800 090 2309
Website: mariecurie.org.uk

•Macmillan Cancer Support
Support Line: 0808 808 00 00
Website: macmillan.org.uk

• Widowed and Young (WAY)
Website: widowedandyoung.org.uk

• Nottingham Grief Support (bereavement through substance abuse)
Website: nottinghamgriefsupport.org.uk

• Nottinghamshire Hospice
0115 962 1222
Website: nottshospice.org

• Winstons Wish (supporting bereaved children and young people)
Support Line: 08088 020 021
Website: winstonswish.org

21/11/2025

Today is Funeral Celebrant Day, a day intended to shine a light on this little talked about area of work. Us celebrants tend to shout a lot about the wedding ceremonies we take, but funerals, it's a bit different.

So, hit me up with any questions you may have about funeral celebrants, Celebrant led ceremonies, or funerals in general, and I'll answer them late. I've had some crackers come in already - you're a nosy lot, aren't you?! 😊 I'm here for it!

17/11/2025

09/11/2025

For those who gave their lives, so we could live ours.

In these uncertain and divisive times, this feels more important than ever.

We will remember them ❤️

05/11/2025

🌈 Drizzly school run rewarded with this beautiful sight 🌈
It made me think of the poem Look For Me In Rainbows, usually attributed to Conn Bernard, and often requested for funerals. I'll share it below ❤️

Look For Me In Rainbows
Time for me to go now, I won’t say goodbye;
Look for me in rainbows, way up in the sky.
In the morning sunrise when all the world is new,
Just look for me & love me,
As you know I love you.

Time for me to go now, I won’t say goodbye;
Look for me in rainbows, high up in the sky.
In the evening sunset,
When all the world is through,
Just look for me & love me
And I’ll be close to you.

It won’t be forever, the day will come & then
My loving arms will hold you,
When we meet again.

Time for us to part now, we won’t say goodbye;
Look for me in rainbows, shining in the sky.
Every waking moment and
All your whole life through
Just look for me & love me,
As you know I loved you.

Just wish me near to you
And I’ll be there with you.
♥️🧡💛💚🩵💜🩷

31/10/2025

✨️ Requested, with love ✨️

Every so often I'm asked to travel a little further afield for a memorial or funeral - this week to Northampton - to lead a ceremony for a family who specifically asked for me to take the service.

It was a particularly emotional ceremony, held in difficult circumstances, but I'm pleased to say it went beautifully. The tributes from friends were especially poignant 🤍

It is always a privilege to be invited by name, and distance is never a barrier when it matters most.

If you'd like me to lead a ceremony outside my usual Nottinghamshire area, I'm always happy to discuss it. Travel fees may apply, but heartfelt words and a beautifully told farewell are the same wherever we gather.

12/10/2025

It's Baby Loss Awareness Week 2025, time for the world to unite, remember, and commemorate the lost lives of their babies and pregnancies.

It culminates in the Wave Of Light at 7pm on 15th October, when I'll be joining other families across the world in lighting a candle to remember all babies that have died too soon.

There's lots of wonderful support out there too, from and many others. Know you're not alone.