Paula Black. Independent Celebrant

Paula Black. Independent Celebrant I come with no judgement and I leave behind memories
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she/her My role doesnt begin and end with your wedding.

I am a creative celebrant but my credibility comes to the fore because I am interested in you, I want to know how you tick and then I want to get alongside the dreams you have and create the most magical story of your love to be shared with friends and family. I come to your ceremony without judgement, and I leave behind memories. I will be honest – I cannot deliver unicorns, but please don’t doub

t that if I could I would! I listen to your words with a curiosity to hear more and I enjoy hearing them. I strive to ensure that my words celebrate you and your love and leave your guest with memories to speak about for years. I am a modern Celebrant and if you want to think outside of the box, I can be there every step of the way – dare to be different and I will there making sure that it happens. My values in life are to see the individual as the person they are, to respect their personal story and understand how they came to be part of my life. A name is a defining point in anyone's life - it sets you apart as the person you are in your family and along with Life Guides, Parents, carer's and all the other important people in your family we can mark your start in life with a ceremony of welcome. If the name you were given no longer holds with the person you have become, we can open up celebrating the new you, the real you, leaving behind the old name and creating the space for you to emerge into life and friendships and family as you want it to be. In completion of the life circle, right at the end of their days, I can support you and ensure that the one last thing that you can physically do for a loved one, is provide the celebration of their life, and the farewell they deserve. While many now choose to hold no formal service, let us not forget that a funeral is for the living, and they too hold many different opportunities from memory recollections to be shared to full celebrations of the life that was led. The values I hold in life, creativity, and integrity that encourages us to challenge the assumptions in society and develops honesty, trust, fairness and responsibility run through the relationships I build with the people I work with. Seeing people, either in my conversations with them, or in hearing them as the memories of other’s is a skill I developed in a previous ‘life’. I enjoy learning about the individuals and couples and then creating a story that can be shared. It is completely important to me that my words leave behind a vision in the minds of the guests, either about aspects of a love story they did not know before, or a celebration of the person that lived. There is integrity in my creativity. I work hard to ensure there is credibility in my words and there is not a template that is drawn and redrawn so that the words I speak are not hollow and textbook. I value the time I allow to create individual, authentic and unique speeches every time.

19/04/2026
19/04/2026

11-3 today, fabulous mix of wedding suppliers who can think right outside of all the boxes

All your favourite suppliers from in and around Brighton that are going to give your day more than a hint of quirky indi...
15/04/2026

All your favourite suppliers from in and around Brighton that are going to give your day more than a hint of quirky individuality - see you there

  Terri has summed up this week so very clearly and at the end of our week, Vicky read 'Women' by Donna Ashworth:In this...
08/03/2026

Terri has summed up this week so very clearly and at the end of our week, Vicky read 'Women' by Donna Ashworth:

In this life we women are many things
mothers, sisters, wives, friends and carers.

we are creators
we are nurture
we are home

But above all
we women are the magic
we are the intuition.

We are the product of generations
who fought to be heard
to be believed
to be empowered.

and that runs very deep.

When women come together
magic happens my friend

And those who tell you otherwise are afraid.

We are not.

So come together in all your glory when you can
because you can
because you must
because you are supported by deep-seated ancestry to do so

and because, most of all
we hold up half the sky
and our half must show the other

how to be.

13 of our members attended the Independent Celebrants Retreat in Devon this week. This was not an FPC event but arranged entirely by and was a gorgeous mix of celebrants from all different organisations. No competition, no rivalry, just 27 women gathering to support one another, to learn and to grow. Massive thank you to who arranged and facilitated it all, pouring so much love, generosity and attention to detail for us all. Most of us who attended have all ready re-booked for next year and can’t recommend it highly enough.

06/03/2026

Celebrants, who are we.... we are the story tellers of the lives and love stories of other people.

When we feel the need for our own recharge we get together with other Celebrants and share our own stories and creativity

If I dont respond quickly to any messages, it is because I am out with a Sparkle of Celebrants.
01/03/2026

If I dont respond quickly to any messages, it is because I am out with a Sparkle of Celebrants.

AI is all well and good, but it misses out on my weddings that are totally inclusive!
09/02/2026

AI is all well and good, but it misses out on my weddings that are totally inclusive!

As we head into 2026, there will be friends and family that are forever suspended in time, their clock held in silence w...
31/12/2025

As we head into 2026, there will be friends and family that are forever suspended in time, their clock held in silence while we move forward to make new friends and welcome new family. Their spirits will move with us in our hearts and minds, but as always, do what you will and harm no one.

As the earth grows colder,the winds blow faster,the fire dwindles smaller,and the rains fall harder,let the light of the...
21/12/2025

As the earth grows colder,
the winds blow faster,
the fire dwindles smaller,
and the rains fall harder,
let the light of the sun
find its way home.

Solstice Bessings. So mote it be.

Address

The Grove
Lewes
BN90QY

Opening Hours

Monday 9am - 9pm
Tuesday 9am - 9pm
Thursday 9am - 9pm
Friday 9am - 5pm

Telephone

+447851093827

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