27/05/2026
Wedding costs, explained! πβ¨
This is coming to you from a wedding planner and a woman who also knows that she will never be able to afford a wedding...
So I see it from both sides and I feel your pain π
I understand the frustration of looking for wedding inspiration and getting your heart set on certain flowers, decor, venues, food...
Only to get a quote back and realise it costs a fortune.
But I don't think the problem is with the supplier, or the couple.
It's that our expectations don't align with reality π¬
So why ARE weddings so expensive?!
The "standard" wedding stuff you are seeing - the aisle meadows, the floral arches, the drapes, the cakes - they're not actually standard things.
These are not typical weddings made on a typical budget.
These have always been for a more luxurious market. Perfect for those who have more to spend. Aspirational for people who maybe don't.
So if you are expecting all of this for not a lot of cash, it's a square peg and a round hole situation.
Don't forget what a luxury it is to have someone grow, design and sculpt your flowers. To bake, design and decorate your cake to the highest standard. To have professional quality photos edited in an artistic way.
We've just become a little disillusioned with images of plentiful, abundant weddings that we sometimes forget what can be done on a typical, more achievable wedding budget.
So don't feel bad if that's happened to you! π
And please reach out if you need advice on how to plan a wedding you will love on a realistic budget β¨