16/07/2025
10 questions to ask your DJ to ensure a smooth planning and a successful event.
10 Questions to Ask Your Party or Wedding DJ
Booking a good DJ is a decision that shouldn't be taken lightly – more often than not a good DJ could be the difference between a very enjoyable and successful party and an empty dance floor!
I've been in the industry now for over 20 years and played at over 500 weddings and Partys across the UK– here are my top 10 tips to consider when booking the ultimate wedding DJ!
1. How much do you cost?
OK, a fairly obvious one, but best to get this one straight first thing, before you start sounding too keen!
Too expensive? Sure, there are guys out there who would take on a job for £150.00, but you are running the risk of getting a very inexperienced DJ for that price. PA quality and quality/quantity of lighting may also fall short. Would you choose the cheapest photographer? The cheapest caterer? Why risk it with your DJ for your big day.
2. Do you have reviews from previous customers?
If your DJ has a lot of experience then he/she should have a good collection of testimonials from previous weddings.
3. What lighting equipment will you bring?
When booking your DJ always make sure he/she has an adequate lighting rig for your event. The DJ should have three lights at a minimum and these would ideally be mounted on a tripod stand for optimum effect. Find out if your DJ uses haze/smoke as standard as some venues will not allow this and it could cause problems with fire alarms etc.
To get a good idea of what your DJ will be bringing on the night, always ask for a few snaps of their kit so you know what they will be arriving with. A top of the range sound system can make a big difference especially if you are using it for speeches as well as music.
4. Are you happy to play requests?
Always make sure your DJ has a very good idea of how you want the evening to go musically. A good experienced wedding DJ should be able to cope with all genres and be able to blend them together seamlessly to create a great vibe on the dance-floor.
Suss the DJ out on the phone beforehand to make sure he/she is the one for you musically and to ensure they are prepared to work with your playlist.
However, be aware that a good DJ will constantly be monitoring the mood of the crowd and so may need to adapt your playlist, within reason, in order to keep the dance-floor packed.
5. Do you have a back-up plan?
Weddings are stressful enough but a good DJ can go with the flow should timing etc change.
6. Can you issue a receipt for my deposit?
I always take a deposit for every wedding I do, this is beneficial to both parties as it gives you the assurance that you have your DJ confirmed. Once the deposit has been paid, always ask for a receipt and confirmation of the booking.
7. Will you talk between songs?
All DJs have different styles and characters so it's always best to make it clear early on how you want your DJ to behave. For example, some people prefer the DJ to use the mic between songs and some hate it. Some prefer their DJ to perform in black tie, and some prefer a more casual look. Always outline your requirements before the big day.
8. First dance & last dance
The bride and groom's first dance is always a very important part of the evening – use it as an opener for the evening section of the wedding and always go straight into party music afterwards as this will be your best opportunity to gather everyone around you on dance-floor.
I would recommend you don't rush into your first dance immediately after the speeches. Let you guests relax and have a drink and wait for your evening guests to arrive. The DJ can always play background music until the first dance starts.
In my opinion the final song of the evening can be as important as the first dance so its always a good idea to give your DJ a song you would really like to end the night on. You can always leave it up to them but you run the risk of them playing something you may hate, so have a chat beforehand with your DJ if you can't choose one and ask what song they would recommend.
9. What format will you use?
Most wedding DJs these days use a laptop with a DJ controller – these give the DJ a potentially limitless source of music, since songs can simply be played.
CDs are still used and are also fine, Vinyl is rarely used now for weddings as it limits the repertoire and is very heavy and difficult to transport. Don't worry too much about what format your DJ uses, as longs as the songs are reasonably high-resolution MP3s, they will sound great!
10.Do they full have PLI?
A simple question like this can give you an immediate impression of the DJ you are dealing with, if they haven't got public liability insurance then the chances are you are dealing with a cowboy – any wedding DJ worth their salt would have all the necessary insurances
