15/05/2026
What If The Horse Isn’t Wrong? 🤔
Lately I’ve been reflecting on how easy it is for us as humans to project our ideals onto horses.
'This is how a horse should move'
'This is the correct foot angle'
'This is the mental state they should be in'
'This is the right way to keep them'
I used to lean quite heavily into that perfectionist mindset myself believing there was a 'right' picture we should always be working towards.
But the more horses I observe and work with, the more I question how much of that is truly for them, and how much is our own interpretation of what they should be.
What if their body isn’t ready for our ideals?
What if forcing a certain shape, posture, movement or trim creates more stress than support?
I also think many horses carry postures and movement patterns that developed for a reason. Sometimes what we label as 'wrong' is actually a coping strategy, something their body adopted to manage discomfort, instability, stress, environment, or simply what life has asked of them over time. Trying to remove those compensations too quickly, without understanding why they exist, can sometimes take away the very thing helping them feel safe or functional.
Some of the most grounding moments for me have been simply observing horses without trying to change them. Riding tackless and feeling where they naturally place themselves to find balance. Watching horses self-trim over varied terrain and noticing what they choose to keep, wear down, or let go of. Seeing older horses who are completely swaybacked by our standards, yet still happy, comfortable, and biomechanically functional for what their life actually requires of them.
These experiences have shifted the way I work.
Now, instead of deeply analysing every detail, I try to listen first. I can acknowledge where there may be restriction, compensation or discomfort, and I can offer support but whether the horse wants or is ready to receive that is ultimately up to them.
I truly believe the body takes what it needs from a session. Sometimes that might look like a big visible shift, and sometimes it might simply be a moment of release, a small adjustment, or just the feeling of being heard and safe enough to soften. I don’t think healing or change can always be forced into a timeline or a picture that makes sense to us.
I also believe that when we allow the body to find balance where it is currently at, rather than forcing it toward where we think it should be, the rest often follows naturally. The body has an incredible ability to reorganise itself when it feels safe, supported, and no longer in conflict with itself.
I’m learning that sometimes the most respectful thing we can do is create the opportunity for change, without insisting on the outcome.