03/06/2026
Here are my top 3 tips for enjoyable and entertaining speeches!
1 - ANYONE can give a speech!
Traditionally it would be the father of the bride, the groom and the best man giving a speech. But as we all know, weddings in the 21st century are wonderful and varied and many don’t include a bride and/or a groom. I think the important thing to focus on is who will actually give a great speech and enjoy it? Why put pressure on your dad if you know he’s incredibly nervous about public speaking but your mum is really good at it? Change things up, do what works for you! I absolutely love seeing brides doing speeches, as well as maids of honour, the best person, mother of the bride or groom, even the couple’s children!
2 – TIMING is important!
There are pros and cons to having your speeches before or after your meal. The main thing to consider is how hungry will everyone be? If you’ve had a long drinks reception and your guests haven’t eaten for hours speeches after food might be best. On the other hand, if you’re feeling a bit nervous about giving a speech you might prefer to do them first so you can totally relax and enjoy your food! One thing I will say though, and I’m sure a lot of other photographers will agree with me, having speeches between courses might seem like a nice idea but it’s actually a bit of a nightmare for us! We usually take a break ourselves during the meal to grab some food, check our equipment etc so to be in constant standby mode is stressful as we don’t want to miss anything but we do REALLY need to have a little rest too!
3 – You can get CREATIVE!
If you pick the right people then the speeches can be incredibly entertaining which photographers love as we can get some great candids of all your guests laughing and/or crying. You can also add in some games like a quiz about the couple, a slideshow or even bingo! Get creative, have fun with it and enjoy!
Lastly, as a firm believer in doing what YOU want on YOUR big day, you can scrap the speeches completely if they're causing you stress. Same for the cake cutting and first dance, it’s your big day, nobody else’s!! 🧡🧡🧡