12/17/2022
Most vague question Ive ever been asked, turned out also be the most simple and profound.
asked me, "whats your goal?" To which i was like.. umm can you clarify? With business, life, growth..? Ready to fire off my panel practiced response.
She gleefully says, "with all of it!"
*wasnt prepared to lump it
Innately, i think she asked me from a purely authentic place of harmony vs balance.
Balance is separating all of it and making it all work. Harmony is surrendering to the joy in all of the most important pieces flowing together.. making all of the parts better together, than apart.
Without hesitation i blurted out "to be present!". Being present for all the pieces; the messy, the joy, the kindness and the challenges of 2022.. has evolved me in ways that had me catching my breath most days.. i celebrated huge successes and found so much opportunity on the murky days.
Harmony is a choice and it gave me the grace and pause to thrive and stay deeply connected to what matters most to me; myself, family, friends and my career.
I didnt subscribe to "the wedding boom" and i don't feel that ive missed out. I wont be making a post about how hard the boom was. But I AM proud that I stayed present and that all of the most important people to me, got the best version of me.
This was literally the best year of my life. Thats my kaboom ♡
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