08/22/2025
Have you ever actually stopped to smell the roses?
No, but really — have you ever stopped to think, “Maybe it’s not the flowers themselves that make her excited?”
On average, women have around 20,000 thoughts per day compared to about 7,000–8,000 for men. That means her mind is running nonstop — and you can bet a big chunk of those thoughts are about you. So when she gets flowers, the excitement isn’t just about the pretty bouquet or the smell… it’s about what those flowers represent: that you were thinking of her too.
Women are natural caregivers. Biologically, it’s how we’re wired — we show love by giving, nurturing, and paying attention to the little details. When she cooks, cleans, remembers the things you like, or plans something special, it’s her way of saying, “I see you, I love you.”
So the next time you’re at the grocery store, grab the bouquet. Especially since men also have that natural drive to provide — using your energy (or your money) to make her feel cared for means so much more than you probably realize.
It’s not about the flowers. It’s about the effort and the thought behind them. 🌹