29/08/2026
A little something personal from us today…
Every now and then, something we create here at The Knoll ends up meaning far more than we could have imagined when we started it.
This is one of those stories.
It began last year with Belle’s dad, and something he asked me to help him create without Belle knowing.
It’s a very personal story for our family, so I’m going to hand this part over to Belle…
“Ten months ago, almost to the day, my dad died after a 13-month battle with an aggressive cancer.
We knew it was coming at some point, but when the end came, it happened very, very quickly, and that was something we weren’t really prepared for.
The night Dad called me to tell me the chemotherapy had stopped working, the cancer had spread, there was nothing else they could do and he only had days left, he asked to speak to Ryan.
When they hung up, I asked Ryan what they’d spoken about because it had seemed serious.
Ryan reluctantly told me they’d been keeping something from me.
Two months earlier, Dad had come up to the studio and recorded two videos with Ryan.
One was a message to be played at his funeral - a final goodbye, in his own words, to his family and friends.
The other was something different.
Ryan sat down and interviewed Dad about his life, his memories, the things that mattered to him and the stories he wanted his family to remember. Dad also left some personal messages for us.
Four days after that phone call, Dad passed away.
He was 66.
There would have been close to 200 people at his funeral.
We spoke about his achievements, his years of service as a paramedic, his football days and years of football coaching. We shared stories and remembered all the different parts of the person we’d known.
Then it came time for the photo tribute.
Except before the photos began, Dad appeared on the screen…
Nobody expected it.
People were stunned, in the best possible way.
There wasn’t a dry eye in the room.
I remember looking over at my grandmother as she watched Dad on that screen, talking to all of us after he’d gone.
I’ll never forget the look on her face and what that meant to her.
I can’t really express how special it was to have that played for our family and his friends after he died.
We could hear his voice.
See his face and his expressions.
And rather than having other people say goodbye for him, Dad got to say the things he wanted to say himself.
It felt like one final touchpoint with him.
And I think there was something incredibly healing about that for all of us.
There is actually a bigger part to this story - and something else Dad and Ryan created together that I think will have an even bigger lasting impact on our family for generations to come.
But I’ll share that another time…
For now, I’m sharing this because experiencing Dad’s video made Ryan and I realise what an incredibly special thing this could be for other families too.
Because it certainly was for mine.
And Dad would be absolutely ‘chuffed’ - as he’d say - to know that something he and Ryan secretly created together might now become something meaningful for another family too.”
I don’t think either of us could have understood what these videos would eventually mean when Belle’s dad and I sat down together in the studio that day.
At the time, I was simply helping him create something he wanted to leave behind for his family.
But watching what it meant to Belle, her family, and everyone in that room at his funeral changed the way I thought about what we had created together.
Because there are some things a photograph simply can’t hold.
Someone’s voice.
The way they tell a story.
Their expressions. Their laugh.
The little things they remember that nobody else knows to ask about.
The things you don’t realise you’ll miss until you can’t ask them anymore.
So, quietly, this is something we’re going to begin creating for other families too.
A space for people to sit down and record the things they want the people they love to have - whether that’s a message for someday, the stories of a life well lived, or simply their voice and memories preserved for the generations who come after them.
It wasn’t something we ever planned to offer here, but it grew out of something deeply personal that Belle’s dad trusted me to create with him.
And after seeing what it has given our family, it feels like something worth sharing with others.
If what he and I created together can one day give another family even a little of what it has given ours, I think he’d be pretty ‘chuffed’ about that too.
Ryan 🤍