17/03/2026
I used to think I had to work like I didnāt have kids, and parent like I didnāt have to work.
In the end I just felt like I was doing both really badly. All the time š«
Two separate, tidy versions of myself that never crossed over? It was exhausting, and it just wasnāt true.
After a few months (years) of crashing and burning and crashing again, I finally had the confidence to shake off those expectations and do things my way. And now I can hand on heart say that motherhood is the best thing thatās ever happened to my career.
I wouldnāt say Iāve achieved work/life balance. Because ummm what even is that?! But this is a mix thatās working for nowš¤š» Some days are mum days, and some days are work days, and some days are both. And thatās fine with me!
Being a mum has made me so much better at my job. When youāre the pilot of three completely different little humans, your capacity to feel and see things through new eyes grows in ways you never expected. You learn to read the room, adapt fast, communicate clearly, and care deeply, which, as it turns out, is exactly what it takes to be a great copywriter.
Thatās why when I updated my resume last year, I added a note under education: āMum School ā Lifetime enrolments x3ā (Swipe for the proof)
Because Iām proud that Iām a mum, I love that part of my life and I donāt want to feel pressured to hide it or wrap it up in a neat little bow for the convenience of an unrealistic 9-5. Motherhood is loud and real and messy and imperfect. Trying to be any other way just harms us all.
So this oneās for the mums in business whoāve ever had to leave early to get the kids from school, or worked from home with a baby on their laps, and felt weird about it. Youāre not less professional. Youāre not less committed. Youāre just a whole, real person. And that wholeness is probably what makes you so brilliant at what you do ā„ļø
I see you, and Iām proud of you!!
Keep going, youāre doing an amazing job.
KJ x
P.S Marty turns two on Friday, which means pushing some meetings back to next week so we can hang out with balloons and cake šand I cannot WAIT.
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