20/01/2019
Dear Wife:
Be proud of your husband.
Don’t compare him to anyone else.
Don’t undermine his authority.
Search for his beauty in his intellect.
Be content.
Don’t show your beauty to anyone else.
Be shy, but don’t be haughty.
Be attractive toward your husband.
Accompany your positive emotions with strong reason.
Don’t be stubborn, or else you will fall from your husband’s eye.
Do your tamkin (sexual availability) so you become his only crown.
Be your husband’s refuge so he will only turn to you.
Beauty, simplicity and purity should be what gives you comfort.
Don’t pursue extravagance, but be elegant.
If you don’t know how to cook good, learn.
Build yourself before you build anything else.
Always beautify yourself for your husband.
Be hygienic, brush your teeth and always smell nice.
Make sure you never smell bad, from sweat or cooking.
Give your attention to your husband when you are with him.
Your hair is your cherished beauty; take care of it.
Never change your cheerful smile with a grumpy frown.
Find beautiful meanings in your difficulties.
If your husband was to say: “If it wasn’t for me nobody would have married you!” your reply should be: “Then I must be very grateful to you!”
If he was to say: “I don’t love you!” your reply should be: “In return I am very proud of you!”
If he was to say: “I’m not in the mood for you!” you should say: “And I’ve got nobody else other than you!”
If he says: “I don’t like your family!” you should say: “However, I love your family!”
If he gets angry, say sorry to him.
Buy gifts for your mother in law.
What you want should be requested kindly.
Don’t be a “demander”.
Understand the difficulties of your husband’s work.
Assist him in social obligations towards others.
When your husband returns home receive him, welcome and kiss him.
Never say to him: “You are useless!”
Keep the house neat and tidy, and accommodate to his needs.
When you put food in front of him, say: “I don’t know if you will like the food or not!”
Always seek help and strength from Almighty God.
See what he needs and help him to reach his goals.
When he speaks pay attention to what he says to show how important he is to you.