
15/05/2025
There comes a time when you realize what you are doing, where you are heading, that the trajectory in your life is bigger than you. It is a time when there will be a few who will naysay you, undermine your dreams, throw water on your flame, tell you what you should do (or not), that you shouldn't, you can't, and just rain on your parade.
The irony is you may never hear a peep from those you believe within your orbit even when there is a death in your family or loved or you suffering a chronic medical issue, hospitalization or debilitation, then all of sudden out of nowhere they come out of hiding and not lend their support but pour negativity on your ascension to overwhelming odds, breakthroughs and rise to conquering what has be holding you back.
Isn't it time you recognize this behavior and place these energy vampires in the appropriate bucket - which is out of sight, out of sound, and out of mind?
We all have struggles from time to time, we all encounter grief, and we all have some form of pain or horrendous life experience in our lives. We also have wins to celebrate inspiring moments, a fulfilling dream and positive full-on momentum in our life.
Those you consider friends or in your circle when they only chime in to bring you down instead of being your cheering section, positive encouragement, lend a helping hand, or just never show up when they should be there for your but do show up to give you their two cents on what they want you to believe won’t work or what you shouldn’t do should be treated with caution, kept at arm’s length or more away from your decision making, and on the other side of your emotional wall of wisdom.
For those who celebrate you, step up and are present for you even when life is challenging for them are those you want to be within your closest circle of those you would go out of your way for, go to bat for and appreciate being part of your life.
If you want to be happier, succeed in what you are looking to achieve, move from stuck to on-the-move, and celebrate positive outcomes in your own life while feeling what you are involved or are doing with your life and for others means something, that you are important, that if it is going to be it’s up to you, and nothing ever changes until you change your perspective to a positive focus and eliminate any negative energy that influences you amongst the noise and minutiae that distracts and procrastinates you.
The only trail that you must be on is the one that gets you safely to where you want to be while enjoying a productive positive journey where the meaning for you is more important that the destination others prescribe for you.
Walk in your power and may your wins be greater than the noise that seeks to drown out your progress and contributions!
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Carson Tang, NYS, and NYC MBE