20/04/2022
Family.
I was able to get a little time with my mother in law yesterday.
I was able to get a little time with my parents today.
I was able to snag lunch with my dad.
Time flies fast.
We’ve never agreed 100% of the time, but it never really mattered.
Some days we communicate well, some days ... not so much.
Regardless, the focus is on caring for each other and helping to grow the family well.
There were times where that was the focus in other places as well, Country, School, and Church.
It may not feel like that some days.
We as people tend to get distracted and sometimes we focus more on what makes us comfortable or what we are used to or our personal preferences.
But the world is bigger than we think.
There are still people seeking to to good, to grow, to become better, to connect better, to reflect better.
Much is revealed by who our closest friends are.
Much is revealed by how we respond to things.
Much is revealed by how we handle the people who annoy us and who we disagree with.
Living the family member that keeps taking your stuff, returning the car in empty, never does their dishes, leaves dirty laundry out and makes a mess not thinking about others can be aggravating, even infuriating, but then we tend to ignore all that when it’s us.
Love and Grace
They don’t stop when it’s not convenient.
They don’t stop when things become difficult.
They don’t stop in times of need.
They don’t stop in grief, frustration, irritation or aggravation.
Love and Grace
Digs in
Braces for the impact
Redirects
Refocuses
Redeems
Reimagines
Refines
They probably don’t think they have recently shown all of that, but they impress much on me.
I’m working on listening and learning better.
May you find, encounter and embrace those who will show you Love and Grace as well as those who you can shower that on to as well.