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The world is always changing, and the wedding industry inevitably must change with it. As most Americans are now aware, ...
04/04/2025

The world is always changing, and the wedding industry inevitably must change with it.

As most Americans are now aware, much of what we consume relies heavily upon imports. The wedding industry isn’t much different.

I’m not an economist, but as a wedding planner, it is my job to have at least a base-level understanding of how recent events may impact my clients. So here’s what’s up:

1. US Weddings are largely reliant upon importing. Whether we’re choosing out-of-season or rare florals that are shipped in from Colombia, making an Amazon purchase for trinkets made in Indonesia, picking out Mezcal imported straight from Mexico, or ordering our dream wedding gown crafted from fabric brought in from China….we (the US) are sure as hell not doing this whole thing on our own.

2. Your vendors are going to have to make adjustments, but they WANT your business and they WANT to make it fair. They’re often small business owners who already fought to do it their own way in life, a little perceived adversity likely isn’t going to make them fold now.

Yes, florists will have provisions in their contracts to protect themselves in case of rising costs, but the good ones already had those clauses in there, anyways. Your dress might be a bit more expensive, but shop owners are going to get creative with payment installments and things of that nature to make it manageable for their customer.

Now, it’s important to remember that these tariffs are added to the cost of the goods themselves, not simply slapped on top of the sales price. Which again, no expert here, but I’ve seen some bad math in comments and videos, and I think it’s important to just keep that little tidbit of info in the back of our minds.

Will there be some changes? Probably. Will we go through inevitable growing pains? Sure. Will we get through it? Yes.

And, as always, now might just be the time to stop going the way of convenience and start researching how to *truly* shop local.

Michigan’s Wedding Season is Officially Thawing! 🌱🌸Can’t wait for those perfect summer nights in Northern Michigan. phot...
20/03/2025

Michigan’s Wedding Season is Officially Thawing! 🌱🌸

Can’t wait for those perfect summer nights in Northern Michigan.

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Northern Michigan Wedding, Winery Wedding,

One of the great ironies in life is that the most important moments happen at the most innocuous times. Think about it-Y...
27/02/2025

One of the great ironies in life is that the most important moments happen at the most innocuous times.

Think about it-

You find out about your dear friend’s biggest heartbreak over a cup of coffee in a quiet corner of your favorite cafe. You witness your child’s first steps while sitting in your kitchen on a random Tuesday night. You make a breakthrough in therapy while sitting alone on your bed staring into the Zoom call. You accept that life-changing promotion inside a bland conference room that was booked for an hour.

A wedding reception is actually just a wonderful celebration of all of the thousands of innocuous, important moments that happened between you and your partner up until that point. And we should celebrate. We should host big, raucous parties.

But we should also keep in perspective what a wedding is (a celebration) and isn’t (the be-all and end-all of important life moments.)

This year, I’m challenging myself to be more aware of the importance of the small moments. The importance of the tiny interactions I have with my loved ones and friends. I’m challenging myself to host more intimate gatherings in my home, invite more people for coffee, say “yes” to more invitations, and watch what’s happening around me with my eyes, not my phone screen.

And I’d like to extend this challenge to you, too.

🤍

When the photog appreciates 🤌🏼 every little detail🤌🏼 of the historic venue and everything happening within its walls pho...
03/02/2025

When the photog appreciates 🤌🏼 every little detail🤌🏼 of the historic venue and everything happening within its walls

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Something Blue 🕊️photos by  venue  florals  catering  cake by Julie Levy Northern Michigan Wedding, Blue Wedding Florals...
30/01/2025

Something Blue 🕊️

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Northern Michigan Wedding, Blue Wedding Florals, Tented Wedding, Outdoor Wedding, Michigan Wedding Planner

To be a wedding planner is to be a border dweller.No, I don’t mean that in some sort of controversial, political, or out...
22/01/2025

To be a wedding planner is to be a border dweller.

No, I don’t mean that in some sort of controversial, political, or out-of-touch way. I mean that in the same way Safi Bahcall did when he wrote the book, ‘Loonshots.’

As a wedding planner, it’s imperative I consider myself the “leader” on any given project. I might not be making every single decision, but I’m providing insight and advice, gently steering people in the direction I think is best, based on experience.

But as any leader or manager knows, it can be painfully difficult to unite people under one common goal.

So back to the border dweller thing- where does that come in to play, exactly?

As a planner- a leader for my clients and the vendors we choose to work with- I must “equally wear and love” the two competing values of ‘Innovation/Creativity’ and ‘On Time, on Budget, on Spec.’

As Bahcall states, if a leader signals that one of these is more important than the other, it will de-motivate the other group.

Are you and your fiancé finding yourselves in a constant battle of wills? Or maybe your parents are generously providing funding for your wedding, but you’ve found it’s with strings attached?

It might be time to involve a planner. A third-party leader, negotiator, and mediator, perfectly poised to find the common ground between differing opinions.

Heres the thing about opinions, as I’ve come to believe, anyways- there’s almost always a little bit of truth in all of them, if you dig down deep enough.

Planning a wedding can be (usually is?) a tight rope balancing act. But you don’t have to do it alone. 🤍

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The Wedding Planning Ins & Outs List of 2025I think this just about sums it up….it’s time we all went a little more anal...
14/01/2025

The Wedding Planning Ins & Outs List of 2025

I think this just about sums it up….it’s time we all went a little more analog ⏱️

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*DON’T ORDER YOUR WEDDING INVITES UNTIL YOU READ THIS*For being an often-overlooked aspect of your wedding timeline, thi...
10/01/2025

*DON’T ORDER YOUR WEDDING INVITES UNTIL YOU READ THIS*

For being an often-overlooked aspect of your wedding timeline, this one thing actually has huge impact on the flow of your reception.

✨Golden Hour✨

Don’t lock yourself into specific reception timing until you’ve Google-searched when sunset will be on your wedding date and discussed Golden Hour photos with your partner, photographer, and planner.

If Golden Hour photos are an important non-negotiable for you, they MUST be factored in to your reception timeline.

Two important reasons for this?
1. You and your partner *need* to give yourselves ample time to eat during your dinner service. (It’s an OPAL Rule that photogs cannot sneak our couples out of dinner for photos until they’ve had time to have a plate of food.)
2. You and your partner also *need* to be back from photos before your guests start to miss you! (Example: if you leave during dinner service, you need to return before guests are fully wrapped with dinner. If everyone is sitting around waiting for you to get back in order to transition into opening up the dance floor, the vibes will be ruined.)

So set yourselves (and your photog, planner, and DJ!) up for success by discussing Golden Hour options before you lock in timing on your invitations! It’ll save everyone a headache down the road.

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At the risk of sounding hyper-specific, winter is officially Sunday Brunch Micro-Weddings in Greenhouses Season. ❄️☀️pho...
06/01/2025

At the risk of sounding hyper-specific, winter is officially Sunday Brunch Micro-Weddings in Greenhouses Season. ❄️☀️

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Micro-Wedding, Winter Wedding, Greenhouse Wedding, Michigan Wedding Planner

Getting married in the spring? Now is the time to finalize those addresses, as well as determine and order your invitati...
27/12/2024

Getting married in the spring? Now is the time to finalize those addresses, as well as determine and order your invitation suites!

Standard recommendations are to send invitations 8 weeks prior to your wedding for local guests and 12 weeks prior for guests traveling from out-of-state or country!

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An early Merry Christmas from our family to yours! Thank you to each and every OPAL couple for allowing me the opportuni...
19/12/2024

An early Merry Christmas from our family to yours!

Thank you to each and every OPAL couple for allowing me the opportunity to work for myself. It has afforded me the freedom to pick these two kiddos up from school every day, attend every field trip, parent helper day, class party, and stay-at-home sick day. It’s something I’ll treasure forever.

Thank you 🙏🏼🤍
love, Kirsten

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Best Dressed 🤍One of the biggest concerns heading into Nicole & Anibal’s wedding day was how Nicole would be able to man...
16/12/2024

Best Dressed 🤍

One of the biggest concerns heading into Nicole & Anibal’s wedding day was how Nicole would be able to maneuver across the bridge of the pool with the sheer size of her dress’s magnificent train (and veil!)

Of course, in the end, the weather decided for us and we had to move the location of the ceremony, but boy oh boy was it a gorgeous “problem” to have! 🤍

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Social media taught us that our Wedding Day had to be a perfect, viral-worthy day. It taught us wrong.
10/12/2024

Social media taught us that our Wedding Day had to be a perfect, viral-worthy day. It taught us wrong.

Planning your wedding can often feel overwhelming, filled with decisions that will shape what everyone from your mother-in-law to your least favorite coworker keeps referring to as "one of the most important days of your life." With so much pressure to create a perfect event, it’s easy to find you...

Margaret Atwood is known to have said, “in the end, we’ll all become stories.” I love that. I love accumulating stories,...
09/12/2024

Margaret Atwood is known to have said, “in the end, we’ll all become stories.”

I love that.

I love accumulating stories, don’t you? Complicated, multi-faceted, human stories. Stories filled with multiple emotions. Stories we tell to entertain. Stories we remember to learn from. Laugh-inducing, tear-jerking stories.

Your wedding will be a story.
And that’s important.
But also? It’s just one of your many stories.

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An exclusive peek inside the Shinola Hotel’s iconic event space. Finding a space for your event that’s truly timeless is...
25/11/2024

An exclusive peek inside the Shinola Hotel’s iconic event space.

Finding a space for your event that’s truly timeless isn’t easy. Incorporate the Shinola brand of also being high-quality, elevated, quiet, and effortlessly comfortable, and you’ve found yourself a real gem of a venue. 🫶🏼

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Usually around this time of year I start in on my yearly existential crisis- ruminating on where I want the next year to...
20/11/2024

Usually around this time of year I start in on my yearly existential crisis- ruminating on where I want the next year to take me personally and professionally, and thinking hard about what I want to leave as a legacy someday.

But this year? So many people have recently texted or messaged me asking if I’ve watched the Martha doc yet….and because of that, I decided that I’m gonna take a year off from ruminating. I’m not gonna worry too much about what people think of me or the work I’m putting out there. Martha would literally *never.*

Even if all I’m remembered for someday is loving Martha Stewart and listening to a lot of Jimmy Buffett, I guess that’s not a bad way to go. 😅

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The People’s Princess, Mary Catherine 🕊️A young fish swims up to an older fish and says, “Hey, I’m trying to find this t...
13/11/2024

The People’s Princess, Mary Catherine 🕊️

A young fish swims up to an older fish and says, “Hey, I’m trying to find this thing they call ‘the ocean?’”

“The ocean?” the older fish says, “Well look around. That’s what you’re in right now!”

“This?” says the young fish. “This is water. What I want is the ocean.”

Just wanted to send out a heartfelt “thank you” to 2024’s OPAL clients. I’m doing exactly what I never thought I’d be able to do with my life & career. And it’s because of the clients who trust me. 🤍🫶🏼

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