09/18/2026
Raise your hand if you’ve been personally victimized by the wedding algorithm 🙋🏼♀️
Most of the algorithm (Pinterest, Instagram, TikTok) is telling you what your wedding should look like. Almost none of it is asking what you actually want the day to FEEL like.
Before you say yes to something, ask what it’s doing for you. Does it make the night better for you & your people, or is it just something you’ve been convinced you need?
What’s ideal for one couple isn’t ideal for another. Sometimes that’s a full floral install over the sweetheart table because seeing that in your reception space is going to wreck you in the best way. Sometimes that’s repurposing your ceremony florals instead and putting the money toward a late night snack cart nobody saw coming. Both are right. One isn’t more of a wedding than the other.
Spend on what matters to YOU, skip what doesn’t.
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