04/10/2026
I now know what the older folks mean when they say “ You have got to learn to forgive”.
And they should finish the sentence by saying “ you’ve got to learn to forgive, so that you can move on, so what’s really important.”
The longer you take to forgive the longer, you are worried about it in the long run it stops you from doing what is really important, worrying about what’s really important. It also keeps you from moving on to the next thing that you have to forgive. You have to learn to forgive folks because, people change. That person probably has evolved to someone else or someone better and you’ll still be stuck at that point of growth, mad at who they used to be because you haven’t forgiven. 
