07/29/2026
This should not be a controversial thought.
Abusers deserve the full blame for perpetrating abuse. Abuse is NEVER a survivor’s fault.
It doesn’t matter if the abuser is a close friend or beloved neighbor, or someone you have known for a long time.
It doesn’t matter if you’ve never seen them behave abusively.
Abusers must be held accountable and face the consequences of their actions.
If you or someone you know is experiencing relationship abuse, call your local DV hotline for safety planning and support. That number here in Philly is 1-866-723-3014.
[Image description: A picture of teal words on a purple wall: “Blame ABUSERS for abusive behavior, never survivors.”]