10/09/2026
I read a quote the other day:
“Delete, remove, distance, unfollow, unfriend anyone who disturbs your peace, joy, and happiness.”
Whataya think? Do you agree?
I couldn’t disagree more.
If we cut off everyone who challenges us, disagrees with us, or makes us uncomfortable, we’d eventually be surrounded only by people who think exactly like we do.
Sounds boring AF.
Also sounds like a great way to stop growing.
Not every disagreement is toxic. Not every hard conversation is an attack. And not everyone who sees the world differently is your enemy. Boundaries are healthy. Avoidance isn’t.
We’re meant to ask questions, challenge ideas, learn from each other, and sometimes admit we were wrong. Growth rarely shows up wrapped with a bow called comfort. The goal isn’t to find people who never disturb your peace. The goal is to keep your peace while sitting across the table from someone who thinks differently.
Also, completely unrelated... what’s your favorite way to spend a rainy fall day? 🍂☕☔️