05/05/2026
42 years young today.
Here’s my 42 year old wisdom.
-You can never have too many cats.
-Be Kind, but not too kind. As a queen of RBF boundaries are important, don’t let people abuse your kindness. If your intuition about someone is telling you something is off, believe it.
-Spend time and make memories with the people you care about. Tomorrow isn’t promised, I regret the missed moments with people that are now gone, all I can do is do better moving forward.
-Friendships are for a reason, season, or a lifetime. At this point in time I’ve found my lifers. That isn’t to say I don’t cherish memories with people no longer in my life. I can look back fondly, and love someone from afar, but sometimes the healthy thing for people is to move in different directions, and that’s okay.
-Travel as much as you can.
-Never grow up.
-AI was a fu***ng mistake, stop using that s**t seriously, you’re killing the planet, and getting dumber in one go.
-Never stop learning, the want to keep learning keeps us young.
-None of us are perfect, not even me 😂
-Yes I can be wrong… this one’s more for my soon to husband, because I often drive him crazy with not just wanting to admit I’m wrong. I love you thanks for still putting up with me 12 years later. ❤️
-Did I mention you can never have too many cats?