26/01/2026
So this morning I was at Ikeja trying to take BRT to my destination, na so one daddy Dey look me Dey smile and in my mind I was thinking maybe heās one of my customers online. Before you know it,daddy came to me and our conversation was as follows;
Daddy: good morning Bonroro (yellow woman in Yoruba)
Me; good morning daddy
Daddy: fine girl where are you going to, Can I have your number, I like you a lot.
Me: Daddy Iām married oooo infact Iām going to see my husband now
Daddy: just give me your number, better thing no be for one person.
Me: Ha daddy Iām sorry I canāt give you my number sir, I even showed him my ring, for where!!, the man was not interested.
I was trying to be respectful because of how crowded the place was, for where.
I stepped backwards from where he was, only for one unfortu@nate woman to come to me and said, give him now sabi na money he want spent for you? Omoh shame catch me on the womanās behalf, I should date another man when Iām not a single lady? Anyway where I come from in Edo state (Ihievbe) in particular we forbid it aside that itās sin against God and man.
Una no tell me say some married women Dey collect outside now? Even the husband wey Marry me, neva enjoy watin him pay for due to cake orders and trainings Na another man go come reap watin he no sow!!? āOdisikwa Nmaā??