12/06/2025
Why do chefs think foodies are just pretentious people who want to put on the pressure on the chef whislt they really don't know much about food at all?
Chefs often feel that way about âfoodiesâ for some very grounded reasonsâmany of which come from years of direct, sometimes frustrating, experience. Itâs not about hating people who love food; itâs about dealing with people who say they love food, but behave in ways that are performative, demanding, or misinformed.
Hereâs why many chefs develop skepticismâor even resentmentâtoward so-called foodies:
1. Knowledge vs. Noise
Chefs spend years (or decades) honing their craftâunderstanding technique, ingredients, sourcing, timing, and ex*****on. When someone with minimal real knowledge confidently critiques a dish based on food blogs or Instagram trends, it can come off as arrogant or disrespectful. Itâs like telling a musician how to play when youâve only watched a few TikToks of someone playing guitar.
2. Performative Behavior
Some foodies treat dining as a stage for themselves. They might:
Take 20 photos before eating (while the dish dies on the plate),
Loudly name-drop ingredients or chefs they donât understand,
Or order something obscure just to say they didâthen complain about it.
Chefs see this as empty theater, not real appreciation of the work.
3. Pressure Without Perspective
Foodies often demand creativity, uniqueness, or complexity from a dishâwithout understanding the operational constraints of a kitchen, the reasons behind simplicity, or the cultural context of the cuisine. This creates unfair pressure on chefs to please egos instead of focusing on balance, seasonality, or taste.
4. Trendy Over Substance
Many foodies are trend-driven. One week itâs birria, the next itâs uni toast, then itâs miso caramel. Chefs who care about depth and consistency often feel like theyâre being judged by shallow, fast-moving criteria instead of the integrity of their cooking.
5. Entitlement Culture
Some foodies act entitled just because theyâve read a lot of Yelp reviews or follow Michelin guides. They might try to impress their table by talking to the chef mid-service or sending a dish backânot because something is wrong, but because it wasnât what they expected (often due to their own misunderstanding).
Bottom line:
Chefs respect guests who are genuinely curious, humble, and open to learning. The problem is with those who act like experts without doing the work. That disconnectâbetween performance and real understandingâis where the tension lies.
And chefs can sniff it out instantly.