The Dressmaker's Magic

04/08/2025

✨ The Power of Belief ✨

Do you believe you have superpowers?
Because you do.

Your thoughts, your words, your intentions, they shape your reality more than you’ve ever been told. Belief is a form of magic. When you believe in yourself, in your vision, and in your gifts, you activate something ancient, powerful, and deeply spiritual.

Spell work isn’t always about candles and herbs (though it can be) it’s also in how you speak to yourself every single day. Every “I am” statement is a spell. Are you casting spells of empowerment? Or are you unconsciously repeating spells of doubt? Speak love. Speak truth. Speak power.

And yes, this level of self belief and confidence can trigger others. Why? Because your light reminds them of the parts of themselves they haven’t yet claimed. Your dreams, your courage, your alignment, it challenges the idea that playing small is safe.

But don’t dim yourself.Your spirit guides are coming through strong today with this message:

“You have the superpowers within you.”

Use the energy of the 8/8 Lions Gate Portal to call those gifts forward. This is a time for alignment, expansion, and quantum leaps.
Affirm:
🌟 “I am ready. I am powerful. I am the magic.”

03/08/2025

🌟Advice for August 🌟

03/08/2025

In astrology, blockages often show up as:
• Hard aspects (squares, oppositions) involving the planets linked to chakras
• Planets in difficult houses (like 6th, 8th, 12th)
• Retrograde planets (internalized energy)
• Saturn aspects (lessons, restrictions)
• Chiron (wounding, healing)

Example:
• If Saturn is in the 4th house (home, roots) and squaring your Sun → Root chakra may be blocked by early life fears or lack of safety.
• If Venus is in Scorpio in the 8th house, squaring the Moon → Heart chakra may be blocked by emotional trauma or trust issues.

🌒 Working with Transits to Heal Chakras

Planetary transits trigger opportunities to heal, unblock, and evolve the energy of each chakra.

1. Identify the Chakra/Planet issue from your natal chart.
2. Track transits to that planet — e.g., if you’re working on heart chakra/Venus, see when Venus is transiting your chart or making aspects to natal Venus.
3. Use that transit window for intentional healing.

🌿 Example Healing Practices by Transit:
• Saturn transit to natal Moon (root + third eye) → Time to build emotional security → grounding rituals, therapy, connecting with your roots.
• Mars return (solar plexus) → Reclaim your power → physical exercise, taking action on goals.
• Venus trine natal Moon → Open the heart → self-care, forgiveness work, receiving love.
• Mercury retrograde hitting natal Mercury → Throat chakra reset → journaling, rewriting old stories, speaking truth.
• Neptune opposing Mars → Solar plexus confusion → learn surrender vs control, breathwork to clarify energy.

🔧 Tools to Use for Healing:
• Tarot: to reflect inner blocks (e.g., 8 of Swords = third eye or throat block)
• Reiki / Energy Healing: clear and balance chakra energies
• Astrology Timing: plan rituals or healing work during powerful transits or lunations

03/08/2025

01/08/2025

I have one free slot available for reiki on the 8/8 (August 8th) manifestation portal at 10am.(PM to book)

The Lion’s Gate Portal (8/8) is one of the best days to manifest because it combines cosmic alignment (Sun + Sirius), powerful numerology (88), and Leo’s magnetic energy, creating a spiritually supercharged moment to call in abundance, love, and clarity. This is a “thin veil” moment where you can more easily connect with guides, your higher self, or universal energy. It’s like the spiritual WiFi is stronger, so your intentions send out a clearer signal into the quantum field. This is an amazing day for Chakra Activation (Especially the Heart & Third Eye) The Lion’s Gate Portal is known to activate the heart chakra (love, self-worth) and the third eye (intuition, vision).This makes it an ideal time for Manifesting from the heart, Visualizing your future clearly and Receiving spiritual messages or guidance.

31/07/2025

🔮 MARRIAGE AS A WITCHCRAFT RITUAL

As much as I loved Disney growing up and the idea of “happily ever after” I never truly saw marriage and children as my personal goal. I believed in magic, love, and dreams coming true, but for me, that magic was never about marriage or children. My mission felt more about creating something meaningful, helping others, and leaving my own mark on the world.Even as a child, I didn’t fantasize about walking down the aisle, I dreamed about creating and expressing myself freely in ways that would inspire people. And I still believe that what you naturally wish for as a child, before the world tells you what you should want is often a clue to your true destiny.It’s strange how many people get caught in comparison, trying to keep up with what others are doing, measuring their success by career milestones or marriage plans. But I never envied that version of life. In fact, it felt forced, performative, and in many cases, unhealthy.

What many people don’t actually realise is that Marriage is a witchcraft ritual. We go to A sacred space (altar/church/temple) and have Spoken vows to take the partners surname and use Symbols of power (rings, veils, flowers) with Offerings/exchanges for good luck. The legal and energetic joining of two souls is a binding spell, None of this is accidental. The marriage ritual is designed to bind energy, lineage, property, and spirit. One thing that never felt right to me is Asking the father for his daughter’s hand in marriage, a contract between two men seems like The daughter (bride) was property to the father until she became her husband’s😂 Just like the bride walking down the aisle, she is led from one man’s household to another, symbolizing transfer of ownership. This still exists symbolically today even if we no longer admit it and it is mind boggling to me that very few actually question it!! Historically, marriage for many women wasn’t about love, it was about survival, status, or family duty. Once married, a woman often became her husband’s legal property, with no rights to her own money, body, or freedom. Love was not the point, it was about legacy, and labor. Marriage was designed to control women’s bodies and bind families through bloodlines. Now, with women having Access to education, Financial independence, Emotional awareness and Spiritual evolution Women are reclaiming their masculine energy not to become men, but to become whole alone. They’re saying “I don’t need a man to own me. If I choose to love, it’s a soul agreement, not a survival strategy.” This shift is cracking the foundation of traditional marriage which is why divorce rates are rising. Many People married out of social expectation, trauma bonding, or romantic fantasy, not true alignment. Women are no longer afraid to leave when it’s toxic, empty, or unfulfilling. Studies show men often suffer more post
divorce with health issues, emotional isolation, substance abuse, lower life expectancy. Many men relied on their partner for emotional support, social connection, or basic health habits. Women, meanwhile, often thrive post divorce, reconnecting with self, community, and purpose.

🪄 SYMBOLISM MAGIC

💍 Rings = Binding spells
• The circle is a symbol of eternity, a magical seal.
• Worn on the “ring finger” because it was believed to connect directly to the heart chakra (vein of love).
• The exchange of rings is a mutual pact of energetic union.

🕊️ Vows = Spoken spells
• Words are vibrational spells. “To have and to hold, till death do us part” is a powerful spoken binding.
• These phrases are often said in sacred space, in front of witnesses and a figure of spiritual authority just like in witchcraft. (Taking the surname of the groom)

🌸 Flowers = Fertility & offering
• Brides carry bouquets as offerings symbolic of fertility and beauty.
• In Pagan times, herbs and flowers were used to ward off spirits, enhance attraction, and bring luck.

👰 White Dress = Purity spell
• White = purity, virginity, sacrifice (think: lamb to the altar).
• In magical symbolism, white also represents ether/spirit realms, making the bride a kind of spiritual vessel for the ritual.

🧙‍♀️ SO WHY DON’T WE QUESTION IT?

We’re taught to aspire to it without understanding its roots. But those roots are ancient and intertwined with ritual, ownership, and spellcraft. I’m not Saying to reject the idea of marriage but maybe take into consideration the spell binding that you’re performing during these rituals. More people should Ditch traditions that feel like control and start asking why not just go with the flow because everyone does it and it’s the easy thing to do.

Be careful who you marry, not just because of the legal and emotional impact, but because of the spiritual ties you create. Marriage forms karmic cords and energetic bonds that go beyond this lifetime. Even if you divorce, those cords don’t dissolve on their own. If you don’t consciously cut them through healing, inner work, or ritual you carry that unfinished karma into your next life. The lesson repeats until it’s resolved. That’s why it’s not just about who you love, but who you bind yourself to, soul to soul.

31/07/2025

🌟 Those Who Dare to Dream, Achieve the Impossible 🌟

What did you dream of becoming as a child? Was it something wild, magical, or completely unconventional? Maybe you saw yourself on stage, healing others, or creating a new world through your voice, your hands, your heart. But somewhere along the way, did you dim your light to make others more comfortable? Did you start to believe you weren’t enough, not talented enough, not ready enough, not worthy? It’s okay if you did. Many of us hold back, not because we don’t have the dream, but because the world taught us to doubt it. But here’s the truth: greatness can’t be rushed. It takes time, patience, and a steady hand. Anything built without heart, without soul, will eventually crumble. So take your time. Lay every brick with love. Be kind. Stay in your own lane. You don’t need to compete or compare, your path is uniquely yours. Don’t let the noise of negativity drown out your inner knowing. You have something powerful inside you. When you walk in integrity, when you move with compassion and purpose, the right people and opportunities will align. And when you do rise…because you will. don’t forget to share your story. Because your story is healing. Someone out there is going through the exact same doubt, heartbreak, or fear you once felt. And when they hear your truth, they’ll feel less alone. They’ll remember that it’s possible.Dare to dream. Dare to shine.The impossible isn’t out of reach. It’s waiting for you to believe.

Emmeline Pankhurst was a fearless British activist who led the suffragette movement in the early 1900s. She dared to dream of a world where women had the right to vote, to have a voice, and to be seen as equals. Despite arrests, ridicule, and violent opposition, she never gave up. Her courage and refusal to stay silent changed history, proving that even when the world says “you can’t,” your conviction can turn the impossible into reality.

Hari Nef is a modern-day trailblazer, an actress, model, and writer who broke barriers as one of the first openly transgender models to be signed to a major agency. Like Emmeline, Hari challenged the status quo simply by daring to authentic. what others might have seen as a limitation was channeled into a platform for visibility and change.

👉 Don’t shrink yourself. Don’t wait for permission. When you dare to dream, speak, and stand fully in your truth, you inspire others to do the same.Your story, like theirs, is healing.
And someone out there is waiting to hear it.

30/07/2025

💥 The Problem with “Toxic Masculinity” Healing Spaces

At face value, toxic masculinity workshops and healing courses for men sound positive, a place where men can open up, cry, share, and heal trauma. And in some cases, they are. But many of these spaces are becoming places that present healing when really Men go into these groups because they recognize they’re toxic, addicted, emotionally avoidant, or abusive. But instead of accountability leading to transformation, it often morphs into self pity and trauma bonding with other men. They sit in circles, cry, and hug about how hard life is and how they failed their wives or children… but then walk out validated by other men, not changed. It can start to feel less like healing and more like: “Let’s all agree we were emotionally neglected, and now it’s women’s fault for not understanding us.” That’s not healing, that’s just rewriting victimhood in a masculine tone.
there’s nothing wrong with men being emotionally affectionate with each other. But when emotional intimacy with men becomes easier than relational accountability with women, something is off.
When Men start bonding more with other men through their toxicity than they do with their partners through real repair. It becomes more acceptable to say “I’ve let my family down” than to actually show up and change. They don’t integrate the feminine, they perform emotional release but don’t develop emotional maturity. And frankly it’s always felt a bit “I’m in the closet and don’t know how to go about it” to me, it’s not masculine at all, even though it claims to be about reclaiming masculinity. Masculine expectation is to Provide, protect, pursue, Make money. Make decisions. Stay strong. And the Feminine expectation is to Nurture, serve, submit, Cook, clean, support, have babies.So what happens when A woman wants to build, lead, or create? She’s “too much.” A man can’t provide financially or emotionally? He’s “not enough.” No one wins. These roles are out dated yet a lot of people keep performing instead of being their true authentic self. The healthiest relationships and individuals embody both energies, A man with emotional awareness (feminine) and structure/discipline (masculine)A woman with intuitive depth (feminine) and ambition/direction (masculine) That’s yin and yang. That’s balance. Masculinity isn’t about domination.
It’s about presence, action, grounded leadership. Femininity isn’t about submission.
It’s about intuition, creation, nurturing power.
The idea that a woman must shrink for a man to feel big or that a man must earn love with a paycheck is outdated and damaging to both and to be honest I’m so bored of it all 🙄
If men can only find comfort in other men’s wounds and not in accountability to the feminine, they’re not healing they’re hiding. And if women are still expected to self abandon for love while men seek sympathy for their dysfunction, the system hasn’t changed it’s just rebranded itself as “healing.”

30/07/2025

✨ Reiki Is Not a Luxury, It’s Maintenance for the Soul, The Most Important Investment You’ll Ever Make Is in Your Wellbeing ⭐️

People think nothing of spending £60 on nails every few weeks, £100+ on hair appointments, £100+ on a night out, £10 on daily coffees But when it comes to investing £40 in a Reiki session every month suddenly it’s: “That’s expensive.” “I’ll do it when I really need it.” Reiki isn’t something you book only when you’re burnt out.It’s something that prevents you from getting there in the first place. Reiki clears stagnant energy before it turns into stress, anxiety, or physical pain. It helps release emotional blocks that weigh you down and It resets your nervous system and realigns your body, mind, and spirit. It gently reprograms limiting beliefs and attachments that hold you back. When you leave it for months at a time, you’re not just picking up where you left off
you’re starting again with unblocking, Rebalancing and Reattuning your energy All because the maintenance was skipped. In my energy healing sessions, I often work closely with Archangel Raphael and Archangel Michael.Archangel Raphael supports deep healing physical, emotional, and energetic. His presence brings peace, restoration, and balance. Archangel Michael is the protector, I call on him when it’s time to cut energetic cords, release attachments, and clear anything that no longer serves you. Together, they help shift old energies out of the system, pain, people, trauma, old versions of self. Cord-cutting is not a one-time fix.Energy is alive. And if we’re not staying spiritually grounded, those same cords or similar ones can begin to reattach themselves.The old thoughts return, The energy of an ex creeps back in if it hasn’t been dealt with. The overwhelm or anxiety shows up again if you haven’t done the proper internal healing work. Because life is always happening. Energy is always shifting.
We all have good days and hard days. We all go through dips, especially during intense astrological transits.As empaths and sensitives, we feel everything more deeply and if we’re not actively clearing and grounding, it builds up. Spiritual upkeep with Reiki, cord cutting, meditation, journaling, grounding isn’t about “fixing” yourself. It’s about maintaining your alignment in a world that constantly pulls you out of it.So if you’ve been feeling off, stuck, drained and exhausted You’re most likely just overdue for an energetic reset. Stay committed to your healing ❤️‍🩹 ❤️