02/10/2024
SHIYU AND FEI 🌸
Are you worried about including children in your wedding?
When couples want a wedding ceremony that involves their young children, they’re often concerned that this will mean they either have to compromise on a sense of occasion and elegance, or lean completely into a child-focussed day where the wedding transforms into… well, a bit of a crèche.
So, for Shiyu and Fei’s intimate and elegant wedding ceremony at Wollaton Hall, we talked a lot beforehand about a balance between the joyful serenity they imagined for their day and the involvement of their gorgeous and unpredictable little ones.
In their ceremony, it was key that the smaller guests were involved and we decided on a ring warming.
Now, a ring warming with their *extremely* valuable rings being passed amongst small children did, I can tell you, require a lot of trust and a little bit of child-level explanation. But all went beautifully.
Shiyu and Fei’s personal vows, spoken in their own language and with skin-tingling emotion, made time seem to slow down for us all, just for just a few moments.
Utterly captivating.
There were, of course, lots and lots of light-hearted moments and the most beautiful accompaniment by (whose stirring strings just FILLED the amazing Great Hall).
For child-instructing skills in action see the 4th photo 😆
And check out my blog on ideas for including children at your wedding.
Wonderful images by
Venue
Styling by the ever-fab
Strings by the amazing
Celebrant