The Pembrokeshire Celebrant

12/04/2025

I am performing ceremonies at some amazing places this season - including:
Serenity Garden Hilton Court weddings Lord Nelson Hotel Woodhouse Barn Cardeeth Gellifawr Woodland Retreat Wolfscastle Country Spa Hotel & Restaurant
Plus some really intimate ceremonies on beaches, holiday cottages and woodlands!
Please do contact me if you want to find out more about how I work and how a Celebrant-led ceremony can really give you your day - your way. Now taking bookings for 2026 and 2027.

09/04/2025

Come along in Sunday if you would like to find out more about how I work.

Not long to go now, we are full of exhibitors for Sunday, what are you looking for? We have cake from Dec o cake, and a new exhibitor with us this season is David Petrie with his Fiat 500 wedding car, you must come along and see it!

11 til 3 Haverfordwest Rugby club

09/04/2025

It's Wedding Season!
I am so excited to be working with some more amazing couples this season, creating such beautifully bespoke ceremonies! The highlight for me is always standing there, in front of all their friends and family, telling their story.
If you are interested in finding out more about how a Celebrant-led ceremony will give you your day, your way - please do get in touch. Creating bespoke ceremonies for amazing couples! Book now for 2026-2027.

11/02/2025

Creating a wedding ceremony that leaves a lasting impression on your guests involves focusing on the meaningful moments and the emotions that make your day special. You want your guests to remember the heartfelt vows exchanged, the genuine love and connection between you and your partner, and the personal touches that reflect your unique journey together.

Having a Celebrant-led ceremony really does allow you to have a completely unique, bespoke and personalised ceremony that your guests will be fully engaged and captivated with.

It's amazing, as at every ceremony I do I have so many guests come and speak to me afterwards saying that that was the most beautiful and intimate wedding ceremony that have ever attended - it was usually their first Celebrant ceremony!

To find out more about how I work and what your options are, please do get in touch for an informal chat.

04/02/2025

A wedding ceremony is a deeply personal and meaningful event that can reflect your unique desires and values. Whether you're envisioning a traditional or modern celebration, it's essential to consider what elements are most important to you. Do you want a ceremony that is intimate and heartfelt, perhaps with personalised vows that express your deepest emotions? Or are you dreaming of a grand gathering with family and friends, filled with joy and laughter?

Maybe you want to incorporate cultural or religious traditions that hold special significance, or perhaps you prefer a more contemporary approach with a unique location or theme. Consider the ambiance you wish to create— be it romantic, elegant, or whimsical. Think about the music, the readings, and the rituals that will make your ceremony unforgettable.

Ultimately, what you want from your wedding ceremony is a reflection of your love story, your commitment to each other, and the beginning of your shared journey. Make it a celebration that resonates with who you are as a couple and one that creates cherished memories for you and your loved ones.

To find out more about how a Celebrant-led ceremony can give you 'your day - your way' - get in touch for an informal chat.

30/01/2025

Telling your story at a wedding can be a beautiful opportunity to share the journey of your relationship with family and friends. It’s a moment to reflect on how you met, the adventures you've shared, and the dreams you hold for the future.
I spend months working with my couples to really get to know them so I can craft a ceremony that really does represent their styles, personalities and stories. I also like to have chats with them individually so there are elements of the ceremony that neither of them are expecting! It all helps to keep my couples present, in the moment and enjoying their ceremony alongside their guests.

21/01/2025

Religious and civil ceremonies (Registrar-led) can feel very limiting for some couples, which is why they turn to a Celebrant-led ceremony that is personal, flexible, and as formal or informal as you’d like. With no templates, or ‘tick-boxes’ to follow you have complete creative freedom to have your day where you want, when you want, and in the way you want.

Each ceremony is completely unique as I love putting in the time and energy to give the couple what they want and something that represents their style, personality and story. We can involve friends and family and even pets! I have performed ceremonies on farms, beaches, woods, holiday homes, gardens as well as more traditional wedding venues.

To find out how a Celebrant-led ceremony can give you 'your day - your way' - please do get in touch for an informal chat.

09/01/2025

A Celebrant and a Registrar both play pivotal roles in ceremonies, but they have distinct functions and responsibilities. Chosen for their ability to create a personalised and meaningful experience, Celebrants focus on tailoring the ceremony to the individual preferences, beliefs,
personalities and styles of those involved.

It is important to know that Celebrant-led ceremonies are not legally binding. In contrast, a Registrar is an official representative of
the government or legal authority responsible for ensuring that legal
requirements of the ceremony are met. Registrars conduct legally binding
marriages and oversee the signing of marriage documents and maintaining
official records. They are bound by legal protocols and cannot offer the same level of personalisation as Celebrants as their primary role is to ensure compliance with the law. They can only legally perform marriages at Council approved venues or Registry Offices.

My couples usually go to the Registry Office to fulfil the legal aspect of their union, then work with me to create their bespoke ceremony at a venue of their choice.

03/01/2025

Just contact me for an informal chat about how a Celebrant-led ceremony can give you your day - your way. Now taking booking for 2025, 2026 and 2027.

19/12/2024

Thank you to all the lovely couples that I have worked with this year. It has been such an honour getting to know you all, creating and officiating your ceremonies. Each one so different and personal. I have loved them all! I wish you all the very best and I look forward to working with the couples who are already on my list for 2025 and 2026!

09/12/2024

A beautiful ceremony at Plas Nanteos Mansion.
If you want a ceremony that is completely unique, personalised, bespoke and memorable - let's talk. Now taking bookings for 2025 and 2026.

Photography by Urien Morgan

02/12/2024

A really unique and personalised version of the Buddist Pirith Nool Ceremony.
When you choose to use a Celebrant to create and officiate your ceremony - anything is possible! You really can have your day - your way. Please do get in touch if you would like to find out more.

Photography by Urien Morgan

03/11/2024

24/10/2024

Another lovely testimonial from one of my couples:
"I found Ruth online when planning our wedding and i am so glad i did!! As soon as i spoke to Ruth i was drawn in by her lovely friendly nature , not to mention her witty sense of humour which me and my husband love!! Not only was she a fantastic celebrant, she also basically acted as our wedding coordinator which kept me calm on the lead up to our wedding. All our family and friends complimented her lovely words during our ceremony, would highly recommend!!"

20/10/2024

Another lovely testimonial from one of my couples:
"What an absolutely beautiful ceremony we had. Ruth made our day so special and personalised our ceremony so well. If you want something a little different and very personalised for your ceremony I completely recommend Ruth. With me and my wife not being big on being the centre of attention. Ruth made sure our parts were short and sweet while creating a beautiful story of our life together for everyone, leaving in surprises for both of us too.

She spent time with us together and individually to create our story and understand what we loved about each other and it was so special to hear these words at that time. This was beyond what I could have expected. Thank you so much, it was a day to remember!"
Farm woodland weddings

15/10/2024

My last wedding of the season - and what a lovely couple and such a fantastic venue - right on the coast, in a sunflower field!

13/10/2024

How To Organise Your Perfect Wedding - Post 10 - Sending Out Invitations

Some good ways to send out wedding invites include:
1. Traditional paper invitations sent through the mail.
2. Personalised digital invitations via email or social media.
3. Creating a wedding website with all the details and sending the link to guests.
4. Hand-delivering invitations to local guests for a personal touch.
5. Using a professional invitation service to design and send out custom invites.
6. Sending out save-the-date cards in advance to give guests plenty of notice.
7. Including RSVP cards with the invitations for easy guest responses.
8. Following up with guests who have not responded to ensure an accurate guest count.
9. Utilising online invitation platforms for eco-friendly and convenient options.
10. Adding a personal touch to each invitation, such as a handwritten note or special message for the recipient.
Final Post - Keeping Organised!

10/10/2024

How To Organise Your Perfect Wedding - Post 9 - A More Budget-Friendly Wedding Reception

Here are some creative ways to organise a budget-friendly wedding reception:
1. Opt for a non-traditional venue such as a park, backyard, or community centre to save on rental costs.
2. Consider having a potluck-style meal where guests can contribute dishes instead of hiring a catering service.
3. DIY decorations using items like mason jars, candles, and string lights can add a personal touch without breaking the bank.
4. Keep the guest list small to reduce overall costs for food, drinks, and seating.
5. Look for affordable alternatives to traditional wedding favours, such as homemade treats or personalised thank you notes.
6. Consider hosting the reception during off-peak times or days of the week to secure better pricing on vendors and services.
7. Opt for a simple wedding cake or dessert table instead of an elaborate multi-tiered cake.
8. Utilise online resources and social media platforms to crowdsource recommendations for affordable vendors and services.

Remember, a little ingenuity can go a long way in making your special day both memorable and affordable. On the Couples page of my website, there is a lovely document that contains lots of ideas for ceremonies and receptions - take a look, you may find some inspiration! You can always contact me to have a chat about the possibilities.
Next post - Sending Out Invitations