22/12/2025
When this time of year doesn't fill you with happiness, because there's someone missing ...
I'm thinking about the families I helped this year, who lost a loved one and will be facing the prospect of their first Christmas and New Year without them.
Bereavement can be the most painful experience, and this time of year can make the loss of a loved one even more difficult to navigate. There's so much hype about happy families gathering together, having the most wonderful time, not an argument in sight ... but that's not the reality for many people.
I send my best wishes to all the families I met this year, who gave me the honour of helping them to remember and say farewell to someone special. I hope this will be a time to remember their loved one, with love and gratitude, and also with kindness to themselves.
I wanted to share this link to ‘Coping with Grief During the Holiday Season’ ... it comes from a bank of resources offered by The Good Grief Channel. I hope it might help.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ezomkQ5IU40
I also wanted to leave you with some beautiful words, not mine, but I can't recall where I found them or who they are by, but I hope they might be of help.
Have faith in love and do not fear the sadness that comes
when someone has gone away, for love is deeper
than the deepest sorrow, its light can reach beyond the darkest day.
Have faith in love for love is sure and constant;
a tie too strong for time and loss to sever.
And for those who love there are no final partings.
Where love has been there love will be forever.
with love, and kindness,
Ruth