19/09/2026
Don’t believe anything you see on Instagram. Especially from wedding planners.
A ten-month project is judged in half a second: the perfect flowers, the perfect napkin, the perfect shot. Meanwhile, I’m thinking: Where is the insurance certificate? Is it going to rain when our Plan B is terrible? Can we launch the fireworks before 11 p.m.? And which disaster is waiting for me in the next room This job looks shallow because we work extremely hard to hide the panic.
You don’t reach this level without becoming part Superman, part accountant, part therapist and part control freak. After every event, I swear I’ll open a French bakery somewhere in Europe and disappear. Yet every year, the projects get bigger.
What keeps me going? Passion, probably. Money? There are easier ways to make more. Ego? Absolutely. I have never been popular on Instagram, and strangely, it has never stopped me from being hired. The picture may be beautiful. It is rarely the truth !
Luxury Wedding Planner
jean charles vaneck
Lake Como Wedding Photographer