11/24/2023
** I shared this on LinkedIn but thought that it was valuable to share here on FB as well **
To All of My Event Planner Friends:
I am writing this letter to you, as I have something to share that I know will interest you. And maybe, just maybe it will inspire you, as I have been inspired.
This is the first time in 35 years that I have consciously and strategically decided to put myself first and not work myself into the ground during the Holiday season planning events. And O'Grady and Janice Cardinale you would be so proud of me. Your influence planted this seed in my mind this summer, so thank you BIG TIME!
It has meant turning down projects that were not a great fit, or ones that the profit margin was so slim it was frightening. It meant looking at the bottom line of projects and realizing that we would be working for hours for less than our worth. Remember our conversation, Stacy Wyatt?
Jason Koop you just wrote an article about how we kill ourselves during this season. You are so right. For 34 years, I was surprised each December 25 that I wasn't in the hospital or dead. Honestly, at times it was really that bad the way I abused my body....and my loved ones when I put everything I had into planning my clients' events in December.
I won't lie. It's been scary making these decisions, but my god has it been worth it!
I have had time to decorate my house, write out Christmas cards, and make homemade Poppycock and it's not even December. I have wrapped gifts, gone to Christmas markets, attended Christmas luncheons for fun, shopped in the mall and I could go on and on about the wins of my decision.
They are stacking up and the mound is growing each day.
I even bought a Christmas cactus and am watching it bloom daily. It's the small things that are making a difference in my life in a big way.
Maybe Leslee Bell is guiding me in this direction because her words to me have been haunting me this last year. She said, "Sharon, don't wait until you are sick to stop working so hard. Cut back now and enjoy life."
I encourage all of you who have read this post to realize that it's time. It's time to value yourself, your soul and your loved ones.
You are indeed worth it. xo