07/24/2014
Bride / Groom's Wedding Checklist
10–12 Months To Go
PICK A DATE!!!
* Work out your budget and what are your top priorities
* Figure out how many guests you want and make a guest list , don’t worry you will change it many times
* That’s why you need to start now
* Choose your wedding party—who do you want by your side at the altar?
* Find a venue for your ceremony and reception, and reserve your date! For destination weddings or weddings around a holiday, consider sending out Save-the-Date cards or emails. Or create your own wedding website, and let your invitees know about it.
* Find a Dress and begin assembling the perfect accessories, If you like vintage think of redoing your mom’s dress my DIL did and it turned out gorgeous and she saved money
* Find a Vendor.(s)
*Food; is it to be a Caterer; sit down, buffet, bbq
* Photographer / Videographer
* Officiant, church etc need to book NOW!
* If you just can’t plan your wedding Consider hiring a Wedding Planner, or ask people you know if they can help
* Start planning your honeymoon
* 6–9 Months To Go
* Continue looking for vendors. And don’t forget, when you hire one make sure to put everything in writing!
* Decide on arrangements , and if you need to; hire a Floral Designer. And sit down with her/him
* Do a tasting and choose your wedding cake with your Cake Designer.
* Hire the DJ/Entertainment for your ceremony or if you need to save money look up on how to do a playlist on your PC.
* Decide on wedding invitations; are you doing it yourself. Or having them made
* Create your gift registry (and don’t forget to update your wedding website!).
* Arrange hotel rooms for out-of-town guests and book your own suite for the wedding night.
* Shop for bridesmaid/flower girl dresses
* Arrange and book any necessary transportation.
*Go over bridal shower/bachelorette details and the guest list with the person hosting your party.
3–5 Months To Go
* Book the rehearsal and rehearsal dinner location(s).
* If you specify no children at your wedding then arrange childcare for your guests
* Reserve all necessary party rentals .and linens
* Order wedding favors for your guests., or make them, remember budget
* Shop for and reserve men’s formalwear.
* Concentrate on finalizing the:
* Guest list. Get everyone’s mailing address.
* Invitation wording. Confirm your invitation text with the Stationer, and consider additional stationery (programs, menu cards, place cards, thank-you cards, etc.). Schedule a pickup date for your invites.
* Ceremony readings and vows.
* Menu, beverage and catering details.
* Do a Makeup & Hair trial and book your stylists. Shop for and purchase your wedding rings.
* Finalize honeymoon plans and obtain all necessary papers
6–8 Weeks To Go
* Mail out those invitations!.
* Touch base with your vendors to confirm date, deposits and details.
* Go for your marriage license and name-change paperwork.
* Begin your dress fittings. Be sure to buy the appropriate undergarments beforehand.
* Write thank-you cards for shower gifts and any early wedding gifts received.
3–5 Weeks To Go
* Go over wedding vows and readings with your Officiant.
* Shot list with your Photographer/Videographer.
* Song list for ceremony, cocktail hour and reception with your DJ and/or Band/Musicians.
* Timeline for the reception and who’s giving the toasts, will you be having an MC
* Wedding night and honeymoon accommodations..
* Arrange seating and create the seating chart and/or place cards
• pick up your wedding rings
• Do you have something old, new, borrowed and blue?
• Purchase your guest book, toasting flutes, cake servers, unity candle, and all that good stuff. Or ask your parents if they still have theirs for something old
• Have your final dress fitting. Bring your shoes and accessories
• Go over your guest list and . contact whoever hasn’t RSVP’d yet.
Confirm arrival times and finalize the wedding timeline with vendors and the wedding party—make sure your MOH has a copy, too
1–2 Weeks To Go
* Give your caterer/venue the final guest count.
* Pick up your gown..
* Put together your own Bridal Emergency Kit.
* Speaking of emergencies: Check the weather report, and if things look iffy contact your venue to make sure a contingency plan is in place.
* Start packing for your honeymoon.
The Day Before…
Make a LIST of everything you need to bring with you
* Make sure all wedding-day items are packed/laid out and ready to go! (Don’t forget the rings and marriage license!)
* Figure out tips and final payments for vendors. Put them in clearly marked envelopes and give them to the Best Man or another person you trust to hand out at the reception.
* Assign someone to pack up your gifts/belongings after the reception (don’t forget the top tier of your cake!).
* Attend the rehearsal and dinner, give out wedding party gifts