Sarah Tolmie Life&Love Celebrations CMC

31/07/2026

Like these insights the Gottmans offer up as comparisons of rom coms vs real life

15/07/2026

A woman once told me, beside her husband's coffin after fifty years together:
"I wish we'd had more cups of tea together."
Not more money. Not a bigger house. More ordinary moments. More time.
That's the last of the five truths in my free eBook — that love isn't sustained by grand gestures, but by small, repeated rituals of attention.
Get the free guide here: https://lifeandlove.teachable.com/l/digital_download/1056851/love-isnt-luck-five-truths-every-couple-needs-to-know-about-lasting-love

13/07/2026

One of the most common things I hear in my practice:
"We still love each other. We just don't seem to be very good at this anymore."
Underneath that is almost always the same fear — what if this has failed?
Almost never. Love doesn't fail nearly as often as people think.
People get stuck. Those aren't the same thing.
I go deeper into this — and four other truths — in a free guide I've just released.

Download Love Isn't Luck free here: https://lifeandlove.teachable.com/l/digital_download/1056851/love-isnt-luck-five-truths-every-couple-needs-to-know-about-lasting-love

12/07/2026

I've just released something FREE - my new e-book:
Love Isn't Luck — Five Truths Every Couple Needs To Know About Lasting Love.
It's drawn from nearly two decades sitting with couples in my therapy room, at weddings, and even beside the dying — the same throughline, again and again: most relationships don't fail from lack of love.
They fail from lack of skill, and lack of a map.
Read it alone or together, and keep what lands.

Download it free here: https://lifeandlove.teachable.com/l/digital_download/1056851/love-isnt-luck-five-truths-every-couple-needs-to-know-about-lasting-love

28/03/2026

22/12/2025

Festive Love and Summer Blessings
Thank you for your community and connection this year.
Here is my end-of-year message and some FREE resources to get you through the festive season.
Merry Christmas - Happy Holidays - Summer Love Blessings
Peace Be With You All
xox
Sarah Tolmie

Hello dear ones.Thank you for your community and connection this year. My happy place is to be in service to life & love. Whether that is in relationship repair, recovery, reconnection, and re-creation; or supporting families at end-of-life in my funeral and sacred deathcare practice; or in celebra...

29/11/2025

Psychologists say this 'green flag' is one of the strongest predictors of a successful relationship—it can be 'hard to spot.' Find the link in the comments. ⬇️