24/03/2025
This weekend, I didn’t just journal or set some goals.
I redefined who I’m becoming…
and rewired my identity to match her 🌬️
This is what I call identity embodiment work.
It’s the process of deciding who you want to be…
and then getting your subconscious on board with that decision.
Because here’s the thing 👇
Most people don’t stay stuck because they’re lazy, unmotivated, or lacking willpower.
They stay stuck because deep down…
they’re still identifying as the version of themselves that feels small, scattered or not enough.
💭 “I’m bad with money.”
💭 “I’m not consistent.”
💭 “I’m not the kind of person who…”
💭 “I don’t trust myself.”
Even when you consciously want to grow,
your subconscious is running old programming in the background.
And your brain (bless it) is just trying to keep you safe
by keeping you consistent with the identity it thinks is familiar.
🧠 In NLP, we know:
Beliefs → Identity → Behaviour → Results
So if you want new results?
You don’t just change what you do…
you change who you believe yourself to be.
And before you ask…
No, this isn’t about becoming someone you’re not.
Identity work isn’t pretending.
It’s not slapping on a persona or faking confidence.
It’s remembering the real you.
The one buried under all the roles, rules and expectations you’ve been carrying.
The version of you who’s already there…
just waiting for the call up into her main character era.
This isn’t reinvention.
It’s homecoming.
This weekend, I got even clearer on the version of me I’m choosing next:
✨ What she tolerates
✨ How she walks into a room
✨ What she believes
✨ What she no longer entertains
✨ How she speaks, thinks and moves
And I anchored her in… through language, embodiment, and subconscious reprogramming.
Not surface-level mindset fluff.
Not performative “confidence.”
Real. Fcking. Transformation.
And this?
This is exactly what we do inside More You.
We don’t just talk about wanting more…
We wire you to become the woman who CREATES more.
If you’re done waiting to feel ready…
Done living a life that looks good on paper but feels flat in your body… DM a 💛 and let’s fcking go.